How Do U Know If Somthing Is Brothering Some If They Wont Talk?
Wednesday, December 9, 2009 14:44i live in NC and as everyone know there was a shooting at virginia tech. and this person wont talk to me and usually he will atleast say hey. he didnt say anything n when i asked him if everything was ok he just said he was dead. now what would u think this means. do u think hes fine n just busy n was trying to be funny, or his parents mad at him or that somthing is wrong. imonly asking this cuz i care about him. im thinking hes ok or his parents are mad at him but just want other peoples thoughts. alos if he isnt talking to me by tommorrow night what can i do to get him to talk. cuz i had friends that want through hard times and one even tried to cut herself and i dont want this to happen to him so i want to help if something is brothering him. but i cant be sure if he wont talk. the last time he wont talk was bc he dint get cell severice. but i was tring to talk to him on the computer so severice isnt the issue thanks. in case any of you were wondering yes its my bf n my 1st. thanks
Monstrar [everyone's hero ?] says:
December 9th, 2009 at 9:06 pm
Just give him time, maybe he’ll open up eventually.
This is too long by the way, I don’t think people will want to read it all.
Good luck and God bless..
cabridog says:
December 9th, 2009 at 11:30 pm
I can understand your worries about him ! But by showing that you are too much worried would not make him better but worse. Therefore, give him all the love that he needs as per his wish and do not demand anything from him for the time-being and I am sure that this will make him ok within a short period ! Try and reply me if this works or not if you do not mind !
flateach says:
December 10th, 2009 at 12:40 am
What do your parents think of bf? A normal person will not answer a simple question w/ I’m dead. If your boyfriend is not talking there is something wrong. How is he doing in school? Do you see anything else weird or missing in is life? If the answer is yes, please talk to your parents. I know this sounds lame but they have been there. They will help give you insight on how to handle this. This is a huge problem with someone you care about. No room for pride. If your parents don’t approve of this bf ask why. Stay calm and be ready for the worst no matter what they say. There best interest lies with you. If he is treating you this way now, it will only get worse.